From every midtake, and every hard time in lfe We can learn something. If we choose to stay aware of those patterns that lead us to the 'failiar' we once made. Because in everything that happens in your life, you are a part of. You were there to experience it. Partners came into bad habbits thst judt developed. And they became insecure on each other and so on. If we did not walk in the same patternd that we all are stuck in, this would not have developed in this way Not exactly the dame, and we cant know how it would have been. But if I had not responed to old habbit patterns, this wouldnt have been. because the argues wouldnt have been there. not this extrem. so aware is what we have to stay if we want to fix our own problems. if a bad thing happens we can choose to see it as a lesson. Se what unaware pattern created it. And the next time you are just about to react the same way you always used to do, you can see it And choose to stay aware. In this way, we wont attract the same kind of people into our lifes, and the events will change. Our old patterns break loose, and give space. For the infinite life to guide us. We only have to let it. And the hsrd thing, will be something that you are greatful for. You can start to see the doenroads as just reflections of your own perspection . This is how we develop. If we dont self let go, Gaia will do it for us And then it comes as a chock . Maybe Gaia is just trying to wake you up.